The art of forming alliances depends on your ability to separate friendship from need.

From The 33 Strategies of war, SEEM TO WORK FOR THE INTERESTS OF OTHERS WHILE FURTHERING YOUR OWN.

The ability to form alliances is a crucial skill in any power struggle. But to do so effectively, you must strip away the illusion that alliances are about friendship. True power players understand that alliances are about fulfilling needs—whether it's gaining resources, securing support, or neutralizing a threat.

Confusing an alliance for a friendship can be dangerous. In an alliance, the other party's loyalty is often tied to their interests. If their needs change or if they no longer benefit from the relationship, they may easily turn away or betray you.